okay, so my best friend likes this one dude. it is completely obvious that he likes her too. I asked her why she doesn't ask him out, but she says that it could ruin their friendship. Now, she's my best friend so naturally i'm going to try something to get them together. but, she already spends more time with him than me. I'm beginning to feel left out. on top of that she'll probally spend more time with him if i manage to get them together. i just don't know what to do. should i
a)just stay out of it and not mess with them until they are ready
b)try to get them together even if i end up failing and risk hurting myself emotionally
c)don't do anything and know that she would be so much happier if she was with him
it's not that i don't know which would be the right choice, I just don't know which one i should choose. i'm just being selfish i guess, but please. help me someone. i don't care what you comment but please, just say something. though, if you would just message me i would be grateful to you for all eternity. so please help me. and to my friend: IF YOU ARE READY THIS YOU SHOULDN'T BE!! YOU TOLD ME NOT TO GO THROUGH YOUR STUFF CUZ YOU THOUGHT IT WAS CRAP SO YOU BEST NOT GO THROUGH MY STUFF!! AND WHAT THEY SAY MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT IMPACT MY DECISION SO IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER DOES IT?! okay, that's all. thanks again, see ya.
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*sigh* i need advice
Posted at 5:12 PM EST on Tuesday, May 20, 2008
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@ 8:57 PM EST on Thursday, August 21, 2008, SmazzyNinja said:
humans are fragile, we can only take so much phisically, but emmotionally..... we can be broken completely. Friendships can only last so long. If this friend of yours decides that this guy is worth more then a friend then she lost out. Boyfriends, ha, not worth it, would you rather risk loseing a friend over some guy you want to be with? What if he ends up with someone else and she had already let you go. Will you accept her back? Think of how human we all are. True friends are rare, This crush is affecting you, not only her. I agree with forever14 on how you should tell your friend on how you feel, but I also agree with FantasyAngie how it always hurts. Because it's the truth.@ 3:16 PM EST on Saturday, August 16, 2008, FantasyAngie said:
No, I find that wrong, about the "it never hurts." It always hurts and effects one person one way or the other. Of course, you should have seen it coming if she likes him. If they do get together, you'll be the one hurt, 'cause she be with him more than you. If you guys do wanna hang out together as a group, you'll feel awkward. The guy would probably drag you guys everywhere to flatter and please your best friend. I had a friend just like that. What did I do? I let go of our friendship so I wouldn't be the one getting hurt. Smart? Maybe, maybe not...think about it.@ 1:23 AM EST on Sunday, July 20, 2008, forever14 said:
hey well first of all u say u feel left out tell her how u feel tell her u dont feel incloudied but i think u should try to get them together it never hurts