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September 26, 2008

Nicky's theory of long distante relationships

my theory about long distant relationships and why they just DON'T work and how you can make them work.

#1. there is now inter actions of the two peoples other wise they cant hold hands cant look in here eyes (in less you have a video cam then that’s a good thing) you cant be there to comfort each other in a time of need.

#2. your stuck talking on the phone on the computer. usually get stuck talking about the same old shit because some times life is just boring and dull, it effects the conversation in the relationship. it makes it BORING.

#3. your always going to have fear of the other person finding some one else that they cant be with all the time can hold hands with, hug, laugh, and eat out with. other wise they can fall in love with some one else easy (I know)

#4. it just sucks.

#5. you cant be mad at the person for falling for some one else I mean come on get real its to hard, and To long of a time to not be visiting and stuff. but yes it sucks and yeah you will get hurt so avoid it the best you can.

#6. the good thing about bout it is if you won’t be gone for a long time it can make you and your love have more respect for each other and it will show both of you how much you care for each other. if you don’t have this feeling (you don’t know love) you a jerk.

#7. I of all people know about these things I have tried long distant relationships and each one of them failed ! miserably. I even used the word love and not meant it completely. I was scares of it ! and that’s the worst thing you could do because if you don’t feel it don’t say it. all your going to do is hurt the other person who probably DOSE really love you.

#8. just try to avoid long distant relation ships all to gather, but lets say you really love the guy/girl. then at least TRY you never know if it will or wont work but 99% of the time it wont but doesn’t mean you SHOULDN’T try at all. love is always worth it even if it hurts and tares you up in side.


#9. Never dought each other because that is like spiting in each others face ! you NEVER ! EVER! want to dought each other. to me that’s why so many relation ships don’t work they dought each other.

#10. don’t dought you self. that’s also a bad thing and can lead to trouble.

#11. Learn trust, and if you find out he/she is a back stabbing son of a bitch don’t try just end it !

#12. if the other person asks if you should try having another bf/gf while you part ! dump them there a peace of trash and you are so wasting you time.

#13. the best relationship is simple ! if you friends get in the way and you parents I think it would be best to take things SLOW ! (it helps make things simple). trust me if you go 100 mph your going to crash and burn. SO NOT WORTH IT. (I know)

#14. relax ! don’t be an up tight bitch and text him ever 15 minuets because that’s ! annoying and will put your relation ship at an end, slowly but surly. text at most an hour a day that’s it ! any more then that you will seem annoying and controlling not a good thing every BAD. its always better to talk on the phone hearing each others voice is like having them right there it always better. (and you should give them sexy time on the computer it works but don’t over do it, just keep them on there tows)

#15. try to avoid fights ! its fine if your love flirts and so do you its normal ! but don’t do anything else but look because then your asking for it.

#16. DON’T ! talk about how bad your relation ship is getting behind each others backs. if it is you should both TALK about it and see what you can do to make it better. if you cant think of any thing and your frustrated and done just move on you saving your self trouble and stress.

#17. don’t listen to ANY ONE that tell you, you should brake up. if your ok with the distance, YOU WOULD BE DOING SOME THING extremely STUPID.

#18. be silly make each other laugh. tell them how you where being a dork or how you keep smashing your town on stuff, how you tripped over you own feet, how the guy that sits next to you farts all the time in class. it keeps things funny and interesting and if your love feels sorry for you then that’s good, because that means there always thinking about you ! and how your a clouts and how bad you have it in the class room with MR. Farts. the fact YOU your self can laugh at your self is good too. (i know its stupid but its the truth)

#19. don’t be fooled ! if things are boring for a little while just ride it out and see what happens if it protists try visiting them. if you cant call things off its easier that way.

#20. the last thing is ! be true to your self and your love. you never really know what will happen, always try to make the best of it, because if you don’t your not trying if your not trying your losing.

by ickynicky, your well come hope you liked and leave a comment if you agree or disagree with any of this you might be able to let me and other people on some other good long distant relation ship help tips because that’s what its all about.=] thank you again
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