hey people!!
thank you for looking at this...
ok, so here's the base of it:
i have a boyfriend, who i may or may not be in love with (but im pretty sure that i am). we've been going out for a little over a month, and he hasn't kissed me or anything. we dont sit together at lunch (different friends), we see eachother every day in school (but not much), we see eachother for at most 15 minutes after school, but we either talk or text for hours every night.
him and i are also polar opposites (him and me are where i got the idea for my poem "opposites" from (its actually how we are)).
its starting to feel like he only likes me for my body... he keeps saying stuff like "set a date" (yes, use your imaginations people, its just as dirty as you think it is), and we havent even kissed or anything yet.
but at the same time, sometimes it feels like he really does love me like he says (btw, im in 7th and hes in 8th, but were only 2 months apart in age).
i dunno what to do... my hearts saying to stay with him, and my heads saying dump him.
please help me!! (comment this entry)
damsel in distress,
brixxia
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boy troubles... help!!
Posted at 6:53 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008
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@ 6:21 PM EST on Sunday, February 24, 2008, punkprincess1114 said:
why didnt u talk to me about this? I knew about the conversations but I didnt know it got this bad. Next time try talking to me or one of your other BESTFRIENDS before broadcasting it. So, you gonna dump him?@ 12:47 PM EST on Saturday, February 23, 2008, brixxia said:
this has really helped to clear my head, and now i think i should dump him... the only reason i didn't just do that in the first place is because I'M always the one to dump the guys, not the other way around, and then it just gives more fuel to the people who say that i have "trust issues" but thank you, and now i think that i will@ 8:15 AM EST on Saturday, February 23, 2008, Unknownwords said:
either A) talk to him B)stay with him and if he does anything call the beat-the-boyfriend-to-a-pulp-service(you know the # ;)@ 5:16 AM EST on Saturday, February 23, 2008, ceceanna said:
Here are some questions you should ask yourself am i ready? do i want our relationship to keep going like this? do i love him? do i want what comes with it? i dont want to say this but he may be ashamed he is dating if he never sits with you or talks to you at school it means he is scared what people will think and thats not good. if you do go all the way he may think your realtionship is good the way it is becuase if you give it to him he will think that what he has been doing is okay and wont have to work for you affection and do you want the chance of everyone of his friends knowing you two did it becuase he may not seem like the type to tell but guys will never give up the opertunity to brag to there buddys that they got ass. personally you should comfront him ask him why you never see eachother and why he ignores you at school if you truly love him and like the way your realationship is going go for it but in my opinion it seems like he is trying to get some booty@ 10:13 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, therealchristinedaee said:
Make sure you know what you want before you "set the date." I was in the same sitch. He forced me to think I wanted to sleep with him. Yeah, complete mindfuck he was. And believe me, I dont want to know what would have happened if I let it lead to us doing it. I could have been raped, he was that type of abusive, controlling asshole. Be careful. You don't want to go too fast.@ 8:48 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, deathxisbeauty said:
talk to him about sex and what not and if thats all he wants dump him. because no guy is worth the hurt of going through that TRUST ME@ 7:19 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, Atlanata said:
probably dont want to hear this but i agree with xXRenosGirlXx i think you should either have a serious talk with him or dump him. and if you are really in love you should have no doubt you love him. just my thoughts message if you need any other advice. XD@ 7:09 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, lostinlalaland said:
i mean IF he was right for you, he wouldn't give a damn who your friends are. He should be sitting withyou at lunch... but maybe i dont know. The whole set a date thing does kinda of show was he's after.@ 7:06 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, xXRenosGirlXx said:
Well, you probably don't wanna hear this but.... If he trys to mess around with you, I would draw the line. You guys are still at a young age, i'm in 10th grade and if ANY boy EVER said that to me; I would kick him where the sun don't shine. Hope I helped ^-^@ 7:06 PM EST on Friday, February 22, 2008, XoxOanimaidenOxoX said:
save the kiss dont waste a kiss on him theres is someone better im sure but heres how to solve ur problem:why do you like him? message me and i'll see wat i can do ok