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May 19, 2008

2 weeks, 2 horrible weeks, EDITED

please disregard that last enty, it was incomplete.
So recently, my friend,Victoria,went on an early vacation to Europe for TWO WEEKS(well, seventeen days, but still)!!! She left us all alone to kill each other while she's gone. Victoria is kind of the centerpiece of me and my friends' lives. She's what we all have in common.
I'm the kind of person who is loyal to people that I've know for a long time. My friend Bayley, who isn't involved in this, and I have had so many fights over the four years that we've known each other, but in the end, things always seem to work out. I knew Victoria as my best friend in Kindergarten, then we were separated by the school we went to because they were tearing it down. Seven years later, we both end up at the same middle school in orchestra. It was some reunion. She even has a picture of us and my little sister when we were in kindergarten to prove it. I have pledged my loyalty to Victoria because she is the absolutely best friend there ever has been.
Anyways, me and my friends have all kind of pledged our loyalty to Victoria. She gives good advice, has a sense of humor, will comfort you, encourage you, she's the perfect friend. On top of that, she's beautiful and smart. Her only flaw is that she has diabetes, which worries us, but doesn't bother us. I wish I was that perfect. We all trust Victoria, and if we want something to happen, she hads the final say.
But with her gone, we're hopeless. We've been falling apart. One of my friends, Calli,has been getting really moody, but I've been shruggin it off, it's probably PMS. But my other friend, Marilyn, and I were working on a project with Calli, but she kept hitting us in the head when we were off topic. I know, we should have just quit her group, left her alone, but the thing was, we don't fit in with everybody else. And everybody already had their groups. Another problem bwas that we couldn't just make the two of us a group. Groups consisted of four people, and we were already one person short. We had no choice but to work with Calli until the end of the project.
What I hate about Calli is her childish-ness. She is obsessed with pokemon, has no taste in music, and acts like a five year old, whining all the time, having that wierd cheerfulness, like, peppyness and stuff is okay with me, but Calli cries on the closest shoulder she can, and it's like she just doesn't get the world. I just plain don't like people like that.
Marilyn was absolutely fed up with Calli's behavior, her thinking she has control over us. I have more patience than Marilyn, that's for sure. I can barely survive Calli's unacceptable behavior. Marilyn would rather commit suicide than try to survive. Without Victoria there to talk us out of dropping Calli like a hot potato, or have her talk to Calli, or something, we were going to explode and throw Calli like a football. Then Calli would tell on us, or something, to Victoria when she comes back, or to a teacher or Counselor, saying she's depressed or whatever, that it's our fault, so we have to meet with the teacher or couselor. The only reason they call the meeting is that whole 'self-esteem raises grades' junk. Then, at the meeting, you have to tell them what they want to hear.
Option 1:
It was all a misunderstanding. We did(make up a story simalar to whatever caused this rift, make the story sound like your friend took it all the wrong way.) The teacher will reassure your friend that you don't really want anymore that she just took it wrong and the meeting is over. The only way to avoid another meeting is to talk it out with unwanted friend or to confuse them by being their friend sometimes and giving them the cold shoulder/who are you/angry/making fun of you at random times everyday until they leave you alone.(4/5 stars ****^)(Recommended especially if the unwanted friend is not at the meeting)
Option 2:
listen with fake attentiveness, take the speech your tacher/counselor is giving, and deal with it. Just give the unwanted friend the cold shoulder until they get the picture.(2/5 stars **^^^)(not very good method)
Option 3:
don't go to the meeting, keep postponing it, or saying that you don't trust whoever is the mediatior is. They'll recommend you see a counselor, don't go to the meeting unless it get's you out of class. Then, follow methods 1 or 2. The method 1 won't work very well at all if unwanted person is at the meeting.(star rating varies from the best to the worst, can result in ineffectiveness)
So, there's one thing that needs to be taken care of in my life, one very complicated thing. It's been five days, so onlytwelve left to go. I can last the weekends, but school is going to be hell. that leaves ten days of hell to last. and to think this was bad, it only developed over three of those days. I would hate to see what else happens when Victoria's gone. Too bad, I guess if she's gone, I'll appoint myself leader in her absence! Maybe things will go smoother.

I'll try to update often,
until then,
See ya!

~Jojo369369

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