Yeah,
as teh title says,
I'm extremely self-conscious.
o.0
I also get nervous reallllly easily and have panic attacks a lot.
Does anyone have any advice on how I can get over this?
I also let things get to me really easily as well...
...and I'm not very open.
D:
But yeah,
any advice on how to get over this?
D:
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I'm VERY Self-conscious. Any help? D:>
Posted at 9:13 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008
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@ 9:54 PM EST on Monday, February 18, 2008, VampireSoul2563 said:
I know how you fell. I am very self-contious as well, but what i've found helps is try to find a group of friends who have a lot of confidence and hang out with them. They more you do the more their confidence rubs off on you, but remember to ALWAYS be yourself and try not to let the harsh words of others effect you as much. For example, my friend Haley is one of my confident friends. She is always just being herself and blurting out whatever comes to her mind. And if someone says something bad about her, sure maybe it might sting a little bit, but i know that she can just brush it off with a smooth comeback. ** And Disregard the chick's comment about the depression pills.**@ 11:23 AM EST on Wednesday, February 13, 2008, EbonyheartVampiricwings said:
you shouldn't listen to people because of what they say, they don't know you and just be proud of who you are. i am still some what self conscious about me but i hang around my friends and im goofy as hell!!!@ 3:44 PM EST on Monday, February 11, 2008, ChicaLoco said:
Find the parts about yourself that you like the most (physical or not) and flaunt them. And don't worry about what other people think. Skrew them, you are your own thoughest critic.@ 6:13 PM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, CrazyforCrazyFrog said:
If you just stop thinking about whats others think about you. just don't care what they say and relax. thats what i normally do...one time I went to school with a neon green/yellow sweatshirt and I really didn't care what every1 thought of me@ 4:45 PM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, SlytherinGoddess45 said:
im the same way@ 4:03 PM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, crossmyheartihopeyoudie said:
im also very self conscious but i always remember that if people dont like me with my flaws then i dont really care, thats their problem and if your friends laugh at you too you should either learn to laugh with them or decide they arent real friends.@ 2:50 PM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, MCRblondee013 said:
Pick out the features and traits that you like and FLAUNT THEM! I'm positive you have them! :)@ 10:38 AM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, .Anti.Flag.Anti.You. said:
Love yourself.@ 8:07 AM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, chelseaprinceton said:
dont be afraid 2 be yourself you can't let people walk all over you show them you ahve a back bone@ 1:04 AM EST on Sunday, February 10, 2008, illuminantapparition said:
It's easier said than done, but relax^^ Trust in yourself and believe that all will work itself out. Even when things don't seem to go your way there will always be pleasant surprises. :)@ 11:20 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, XxCrimson.TearsxX said:
I've gotta be the most self-contious exsisting person, and I've got panic attacks too. My advice, find some good anti-depressants.@ 11:15 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, xXx-Show-Me-Love-xXx said:
Well... It's always good to talk to somebody about it. If you're not open, people aren't going to know how you feel. If they don't know, they can't care. Don't care what other people say and/or think. People are gonna talk, right? Give them something to talk about! Just be yourself, don't worry about it. I know this is easier said than done, but I used to be the same way up until I started hanging out with my friends. =)@ 10:02 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, KoRn365 said:
Nice idea tagging it so much. Gets attention.@ 9:37 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, masterpirate2 said:
Relax. Be Apathic! That's it. Calm down, and just don't care. That's what I do. And Look at me! I'm a shy-loser who managaes to make a fool out of herself simply by opening my mouth! Woo!@ 9:34 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, thedarksidehascookies1 said:
did you see if you have a social disorder? maybe a form of autism? my mom couldn't figure out what was wrong with me then i got diagnosed for a social disorder@ 9:32 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, tomcat9251994 said:
im cluless and im the same way...@ 9:29 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, Airika14 said:
You seem a lot like me, but you know, you just gotta work at it. Think of all the things that you get nerouvs about...do things that will help you not get nervous, if that even makes any sense. You shouldn't let things get to you. If someone says something mean to you ignore it...Karam's a bith, it'll came back and nip em in the ass. :D I hope you work this out.@ 9:17 PM EST on Saturday, February 9, 2008, isleyrox said:
I have the same problem =/